As the title suggests this blog is on thinking about trivial matters and imagining the worst cases for almost everything in life to such and extent that after a point of time its just thinking "NONSENSE".
Some of the things are :
1. What will the other person think of you?
2. What if you can't answer some question that they ask?
3. God, how could I not know such a simple thing.
The list goes on...
Though it does not seem so this is a very common problem and has to be consciously cured with the help of your loved ones and more than anyone YOURSELF
If it is speaking to a person that you are hesitant about and that you are not able to overcome that. The only way to cure this is to
SPEAK TO THE RESPECTIVE PERSON
Go ahead, at the most he/she might not respond. That is all that can happen and so there is no point in torturing yourself with such torturous things. You can move on to something more useful to spend your time.
There is no other way to deal with such thought but face it head on.
Well I hope you not hesitant about jumping in front of a train or so... In which case I would suggest a psychiatrist :).
Always keep 1 or 2 trusted friends who will always boost you when you approach them with your fears.
You have one life
and each day is a past
Live your life today
So your past is memorable
and your future is exciting
YOU CAN DO IT :)
2 comments:
Nice one lekha...loved it...
And loved it most becoz u wrote it...it wz lwast expectd from u..:)....hope this makes a difference...
Thanks, i also got somthing to learn ....
Nice One Lekha :) .. I remembered my own experience of persisting .. calling a person X day and night .. even getting threatened that I will be sued :) .. all because X mistook my intention due to a bad experience X had with another person ..., and this not just adds up to the bad experiences, they also start to replace the good ones.
I hope, someday, the good ones get rejuvenated with all the misunderstandings getting wiped off :) ...
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